Why women are not happy? Save for later Reblogpost

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Maybe I’m a jerk, but Millennial women are suckers. They got conned by schools, by feminism, that “careers” are what make women happy. No they don’t. The older you get, the more this will become obvious to you. The older you get, the more important family and children are. It’s hard for women to figure this out when they are young because they have no perspective that comes with time. The truth is ALL young women in all of human history, (except this generation), have focused on marriage and family…. Why has this been the pattern in the past? Because life moves along very quickly for young women. Soon she will be old. If she does not have a family by the time she is 30, she might end up alone, she will likely never marry, but live alone till her mid-80s, because men generally don’t want to marry old women. 85-30 = 55….Fifty-five years is a long time, to live alone. More than half a century. A few women will be happy with this. The vast majority will be miserable. The odds are not in your favor, if you wait till you are an old lady to find a life partner.

The truth is, we humans are biologically programmed to fall in love when we are young, but the window to do this, is short for a woman, long for a man. That’s the basic biological reason that women can’t be exactly the same as men in the world: Nature doesn’t want them to be. Remember all the stuff you were taught, that men ran the world in the past? It’s all true. But you were lied to, as to why. Women had babies in the past, that’s why. Without babies, there is no future, no civilization, no life. No YOU….by the way…how the hell do you think you got here anyhow? You had a Mother. Give her a little respect. She did the most important thing in the universe: she created YOU. Running a Fortune 500 company pales in comparison. When Millennial women say they don’t want kids, they are implying their own Grandmothers wasted their lives. That kind of feminist garbage thinking infuriates me, it’s so ungrateful and low brow.

What is the basic thing feminist got wrong? Why are young women suckers, after being brainwashed and indoctrinated? Young feminist women are suckers because biology sets the limits on females. Men don’t set limits on females, despite all the bullshit you have been spoon-fed by feminists…..if you are a woman, or even if you were forced to listen to this nonsense, as a male. Feminists like to blame men, but it’s all nonsense. Women don’t have to worry about men. Men love them. They have to worry about time itself. Look up at a clock to check the time. Or look at the time on your Smart Phone. That’s where the problem is. If that doesn’t terrify you, you are not awake to reality.

Men love you. Time does not. That’s what feminists don’t bother telling women…it’s all about your body, it’s all about you and not the nonsense you hear about an oppressive thing, “The Patriarchy!”. Feminists tell women career is important, but you can have it all….career and family. For a few women, that actually happens…..but that’s essentially a male pattern. For most women, that’s a lie they will come to be seen clearly in time, as a lie. And what a horrible monstrous thing, that lie is. The current Big Feminist Lie that every woman can have it all, it will very likely ruin your life. Feminists are liars. You think feminists are your friends? You are a fool. I’m not here to flatter you. I’m here to tell you the truth.

The media lies to you with images, all the time. Pay attention to the images on the screen. Think about them, when you watch them. You are being conned. You are being manipulated. When women concentrate and focus on career and school, between ages 20 and 35, then their standards get raised, for what they want, in men. They out-compete men, no man is good enough, they all want the top men. Guess what? That plan, at the core of feminism, it won’t work, for most women. You continue to reject men? You keep your high standards, no one is good enough?….sure, go ahead. Here’s what will happen: You end up alone….meow….here kitty….Math and logic is not on your side, as a woman. Only a few women get the top men, and while many women waste their 20s getting drunk, their lives slowly slip through their fingers because trying to hold onto youth is like holding onto sand, in a clenched fist: it always finds a way to slip out…..

There is no foolishness as deep and tragic as a beautiful young woman who thinks she will be young and beautiful forever. Just tragic….

In an age where sex is easy to get, women who have been whores their entire 20s, and are now 30 and old, are no catch to a man. What do they have to offer, that he can’t get elsewhere? Is this cruel to women? Yes, but is it men being cruel? Is that the ultimate source of that cruelty? No, it’s nature, not men. Yes, nature is insanely cruel to women, but let’s stop pretending it’s men that are cruel to women. It’s not. It’s nature. Women are stupid for going along with this easy  attitude towards sex, thinking they can be promiscuous forever, young forever. All this is not “empowerment”…it’s vast stupidity that just makes women unhappy. Guess what girls? It’s going to get worse, not better, because many young women, they still embrace feminism….plus feminists have a hold of the school system, use public money to brainwash the unsuspecting next generation.

Don’t take my word for it. Ask women. People have done that. A few paragraphs down is a link to a massive international study of female happiness, in many country, all of which are advanced countries, with lots of opportunities for women. There are lots of studies on female happiness, long term studies that say that back in the day, when women had kids when they were young, during the 1940s, 50s, 1960s…they were a lot happier back then. Then 2nd Wave Feminism came along in the 1970s, told the women to put career first, jobs first. Women listened to the feminists. A new social experiment happened, of women neglecting having children when they were young, and focusing on having careers as the top priority, over children. Feminists told women: it will make you happy, it will ’empower’ you. Did it work?

Of course not….

What happened with this new feminist social experiment? What does the evidence say? Are women happier? No, definitely not. Quite the opposite. Since that time in the 1970s, women’s happiness is in long term steady decline….in all advanced countries that “empowered” women to prioritize money over children. In all these countries, women are getting unhappier and unhappier, each year. Like I told you a minute ago, feminists are not your friends. They give you bad advice which will ruin your life if you follow their advice.

Question: Why did the feminist advice ruin several generations of women? My answer: Basic science. Women are human beings. Women are mammals. Like all female mammals, women evolved to have children when they are young, not to have “careers”. When they are old…past 35…there is lots of time for “careers” if you want. Yes, 35 is old for a woman in nature. That’s not sexism, it’s biology. For most of evolution, life was short. Look up “Human longevity in human history wiki” some time. Women dying by 40 was not uncommon in our history. In fact it was very common. That’s why women evolved to have babies when they were young: It takes a long time to raise babies, plus women died young. So the women in the past who ignored having children, died off. Just like the Millennial women will mostly die off, genetically replaced in the future by women smart enough, not to believe current feminist garbage.

However, don’t be discouraged. There is hope:

Here is what has changed and it is hopeful for women smart enough to understand it: If a woman has her kids when nature intended, which is quite young, then when she is ‘old’…past 35, then thanks to modern medicine and technology, she will still have half a century to have a ‘career’ if she wants to. Women can now have their cake and eat it too, but only if they have their children first, when they are young, then have their career later in life. Past 35 you still have 50 years to live, but you have a few short years to have a family. Lose your chance to have a family and it’s gone forever…..for women.

I have followed trends in medicine and I think it’s a safe prediction that as time goes on this century, humans will cure more and more of their maladies and most women will be able to have fairly healthy lives, between ages 35 and their mid-80. But one thing that will not be reversed is general aging itself, so having women bear children when they are old….past 30….is foolish by the metric of time and nature. Feminists were insane to push women into a new social norm where they focus on money instead of children, when they are young. Nature does not work that way. This single colossal mistake has ruined the lives of at least one generation by now. Feminists now need to look at the evidence of science to see how big a mistake that was, how much it has harmed women.

If you are a young woman, your grandmother was a lot happier than you are, more than likely:

https://www.nber.org/papers/w14969

Here’s why it will only get worse for you as a young woman, if you don’t change: Where feminism is going: Are you following the current news? Now feminists support killing babies, viable babies, right in the womb, or even killing babies after they are born. This is killing our future country, our culture, but never mind that. Just think about your own life: You are killing your own future when you kill your children. You are killing your own chances of future happiness and family and a normal life. Here’s the Democrat plan for your life, as a woman: Murder your babies, have a job instead of a family, then take over the world.

“Gurl power” is sick.

Will our culture survive this generation of feminist freaks? I don’t know, but it depends if younger women turn on feminism or not. This video by U. Lens at top certainly gives me hope, as The Ukrainian Lens has a lot of sense in her head. Young women certainly have the power to end or reform feminism, no doubt about it. What young women want, they usually get. In the end, men listen to women. You want abortion? You got it. You want careers? You got it. It’s your choice, not mine as a man. I’m not here to tell you what to do. That doesn’t even interest me. I’m just here to tell you that you are likely ruining your own life. Women control future life. Men don’t. That’s the way of nature…it’s the way it has to be.

I know this may be a very controversial statement to make nowadays, but to young women I say: Please don’t kill your babies.

And to men I’d say: Don’t judge women who kill their babies. Don’t condemn them. Many fine women have been conned by social pressure and feminism, to do just that. Forgive women who have done this horrific thing. Don’t hold it against them. Forgiveness and redemption should be at the heart of our culture.

I remember back in the early 1970s, watching family members debate about abortion. The debate was all done by words, by clever use of words and arguments. Back then, we were pretty ignorant, so a lot of us went along with abortion, men included. We didn’t know any better. That’s pretty easy to do, when you only think about abortion, in terms of words. That disconnects you from reality.

We had no internet back then. The science on abortion was quite primitive. It was easy to be ignorant back then, to fool yourself about what was actually happening. Things have changed. The science is now pretty clear: we are currently chopping up millions of living, feeling human beings that can feel pain.

So….It’s not really about words. We were wrong. That’s a real bad way to understand what is going on. Look at that picture above. Stare at it for 5 minutes. If you still support abortion after that, I can at least say we disagree, but you are brave and open minded enough, to look at the evidence.

What we didn’t know, back in the 1970s, was that very early on, babies developing in the womb, can feel tremendous amounts of pain. The early 70s was when my generation let in Roe vs. Wade. We were wrong. The evidence is now in, and I don’t support cruelty. Abortion is cruel. Yes, unborn children feel pain, very early on. You don’t have to be a religious person to accept this. Just look up the science. Only the most heartless person can now support abortion.  I don’t support chopping up babies, with mechanical devices. I don’t support lethal injection of chemicals to kill babies. Do you? That has to end. We need to morally evolve on this question. It’s up to the current generation to change their minds. Don’t blame yourselves, if you are younger. Blame my generation. We were wrong. The way of feminism is the way of death, the way of killing unborn children. Not good.

Yeah, but is this all just me thinking this way? I’m just some old guy spouting off on the internet. Let’s ask someone with much, much more intellectual horsepower than I have. Let’s ask someone who the New York Times called “the most influential intellectual in the world today”. Here’s what Professor Jordan Peterson has to say on this sort of thing. Professor Peterson talks about feminism and whether it has been good in general for a lot of women. And he talks about the terrible price most women have paid, for following the feminist plan. He talks about how feminism has pretty much trashed marriage for the majority of women, how it’s made most women miserable. Peterson talks about how feminism has made marriage something that only well-off women can now have, while most women can’t have it, thanks basically to feminism.

With the choice over life, women have an awful lot of power. They just don’t realize it, most of them. They have the power to continue life, or end it. They have the power to continue our civilization, or end it. Please don’t pretend that this power means nothing and that everything is about money. Please women, stop pretending that men have all the power. That’s just nonsense. It’s a very great power that women have, the power over life itself. Just remember: With great power, comes great responsibility. If it screws up, then yes, it’s your fault. If it all goes badly for you, don’t blame men. You have the power. Blame yourself.

Just remember, your choices as a woman have consequences. You have to live with them…and eventually die with them.

However, here is what young women now have to contend with: Young men are now running away from marriage…..just like The Ukrainian Lens talks about. Ask yourself: Why? My guess: We have raised a generation of baby killers who want to dominate men, and who hate men. Feminist misandry, feminist hatred against men has to stop. We have to stop killing our babies. We should celebrate life, celebrate and honor Mothers and Grandmothers and Aunts.

Ladies, you’ve been conned by feminists. Most of you are very nice people, but you’ve been conned into believing a very sick feminist world-view that will very likely destroy your life.

Good luck to you and I hope your life goes well.