The current American dating disaster is a great opportunity for an entrepreneur. I went to summer camp as a kid. At 12 years old I was with a hundred boys and girls for two weeks. Love bloomed at that age. The camp was near a lake with a soft white beach. On my way back from the beach, I walked with a tall blonde girl, about my age, but taller than me. It was love at first glance. I still remember the sun dangling off her hair, her soft way of talking. I fell for her….hard. I was smitten. There was no hope for me. My first.
Americans don’t need “dating”. Tinder is the worst idea ever. It’s a meat-grinder for human lives. Tinder is de-humanizing women and men, making them enemies, destroying love between the genders. We need to bring men and women together, living together, playing together in a non-work environment for a few weeks. It’s how we evolved. In tribes. Are you a man who thinks looks matter? That women judge on looks? Looks matter less than you think.
Women judge on looks, sure, but the female judges with a more comprehensive view of men, if they have time to socially evaluate them in a non-pressured environment. Women judge more on looks? That’s just projecting. It’s men, more than women, who judge based on looks. I sure do. I want the best looking, youngest woman I can find. Women judge men mostly on social status….simple as that. Since feminism pushed women into equal economic status with men, that means many women out-compete men economically. So now most men are socially eliminated by the new feminist social equation. Feminism, by design, genetically eliminates most men, makes most men genetically irrelevant….pure garbage, to be disposed of. With women economically competing with men, women still judge men on economics, but also focus on looks. That makes it even harder for men. But realize: looks are the noise, not the signal.
Don’t believe it?
Have you SEEN President Trump and his wife? Someone asked Melania: “Would you be with him if he wasn’t rich?” Her response was perfect: “Would he be with me if I weren’t beautiful?”
As the old song goes:
“Summertime and the livin’ is easy Fish are jumpin’ and the cotton is fine Oh your Daddy’s rich and your ma is good lookin’ So hush little baby, don’t you cry…..
Humans evolved to mate and bond at a young age….in their teen years and early 20s. Feminism pushes up the age of human mating, which destroys the chances of romantic love. Trying to find love at 40 is like drinking milk two weeks after the expiry date. Most 40 year olds have a long track record of broken hearts. That scars the human heart forever, making love at that age impossible. Sexual freedom trains both men and women, that the opposite sex is disposable, that if you want, you can move on, find a new one. She/he are disposable. A culture that runs on that mentality is in it’s death throes. We evolved to pair-bond primarily when we are young. But due to the Sexual Revolution and feminism, the average age of marriage keeps going up and up. This means nature and biology no longer unfold at a young age, as nature intended. Instead, two biologically old people get married, as they are pushing 30…or beyond. That’s unnatural, that’s warped, that’s out of tune with evolution. Thirty is far, far too old for a woman to mate, it’s even too old for a man. Our culture is insane. People consider it “normal” to be looking for a mate, when they are in middle age. Far, far too late.
It’s not that hard to figure out how it should work: just use our evolutionary history, as your guide.
Women want the best man with the highest social status they can fine. That’s an evolved hyper-gamous tendency in women. It’s there for a reason: because women are supposed to get pregnant at a young age, according to nature. If we mess with that equation and delay female pregnancy, at the same time as we allow women to economically compete with men for status, then the culture disintegrates. That social pattern won’t work more than a generation or two, before social collapse. We see it already.
And we need to get over our infatuation with technology. We need to get over our deluded belief that technology is always good. Not true. False. In fact: Technology is making this worse….not better. People think technology makes it easier to find a mate? Fools. Tinder traps American women into stupid, brain dead superficial social evaluations of men. It allows the evolved hyper-gamous nature of women, to completely get out of hand, destroying the social fabric of America….destroying most American men in the process. The victims are all over the internet. We see them in the Men’s Rights Movement. We see them in mgtow. Technology gives women the easy technical means to delete 80% of American men, with the click of a button…..so they do.
Don’t make it easy for people to do destructive, stupid things. Make it hard. I remember a book I read years ago, called “IBM and the Holocaust”. It turns out, finding, identifying and rounding up millions of Jews is a complex technical task. It was facilitated and made possible, by early computers….which make it easy to organize information. Your computer may very well be an IBM computer. Technology can be used to round up humans and murder them. Now this same computer technology behind the Holocaust is destroying the romantic fabric of America, turning it into a dating hell-hole.
American culture is sick. Listen to Blue Monday and Stardusk. When very decent men and women can’t find a mate easily, that’s an obvious symptom of an underlying disease. America is sick. America is dying from feminism, sexual liberation, ignorance about how evolution works, and bad use of technology.