My wife is a complete a-hole and I was wondering if others are in the same predicament. I have been married for 30 yrs. at this point and I am at my wits end. Since the very beginning she has taken to calling me a loser concerning my employment. Now, mind you, I am no genius by any standard and have never presented myself as such. I am also not very handy, unfortunately, so I am limited in my value to the marketplace. In order to overcome this I acquired union jobs where I could do something useful, like operating a forklift, and receive a decent living and provide excellent health insurance for my family. I didn’t mention I have 3 grown children.
My wife had a long-standing job at the time and constantly reminded me that she made more money than I. When my union job kicked in with full benefits, my hourly rate was less than hers, but with the benefits I was firmly ahead of her. She refused to accept that and continued to claim that the only thing that mattered was hourly rate and still ridiculed me for being a loser.
I was still in my twenties and unfortunately, I started to believe her ridicule. This made me very angry with my employers and led to begin to hate my employers who I was blaming for putting me in this predicament. I worked for a pharmaceutical packaging company and began to spend my time studying everything they did and the FDA and OSHA rules. I started reporting all violations and this led to series of fines and lost customers which within a few months put the company out of business. I regretted this because many of the people who lost their jobs were my friends whom I had worked with for 15 years.
I swore to myself that I would never do anything like this again and was quickly able to get another job in the same business and with a good union. I fell into the same pattern and now had added the “joy” of physically intimidating the management. The same pattern resulted in the same result and I was unemployed after 6 years at that job.
I felt like I couldn’t be a loser when I was able to assert this kind of power over peoples lives. In other words in trying to not be a loser I had made myself a loser. The worst part is I was not a loser to begin with. I was a very hard worker and went to work everyday and got along with everyone. I know I never would have done these things if my wife had not treated me so badly. What I did was horrible and I now take responsibility for my actions, but isn’t my wife also somewhat responsible? Isn’t it very wrong for her to put me down to make herself feel better about herself and did not her wrongful actions also pay a role in my wrongful actions?
In future posts I will go into detail about how I put these companies out of business and the other HORRIBLE things my a-hole wife has done to me, so please subscribe so you don’t miss anything. Believe me it is very interesting!